Can a Husband or Wife Seek Divorce Due to an Unwanted Arranged Marriage?
Question
I have two questions. My first question is if someone get married(arranged marriage) due to family pressure or to please the family, let's say the person they married isn't a bad person at all but they just don't like the person maybe due to circumstances around their marriage. So it is making the marriage not work out, in this case can there be a divorce because I heard something like this happened in the time of the Prophet. My second question and it is something I have been thinking about, if a man cheats on his wife they will advice the wife to exercise patience and stay with her husband but if a woman cheats on her husband and her husband does not divorce her he is seen as a weak man. Is it cultural values or something else, it has just been on my mind
Islamic Ruling & Answer
VerifiedFirst question:
If a marriage happened mainly because of family pressure or obligation, and the husband and wife are unable to develop peace, love, or compatibility even though the other person may not be a bad spouse then Islam does allow the possibility of divorce or khula. A person is not required to force themselves to remain in an unhappy marriage for life. Something similar happened during the time of the Prophet īˇē, when a woman sought khula not because of her husbandâs bad character or religion, but because she could not continue emotionally in the marriage, and the Prophet īˇē allowed it. However, Islam also teaches that divorce should not be rushed into over small issues; sincere efforts toward reconciliation and understanding should come first.
Second question:
This is mostly due to cultural double standards, not the justice of Shariah itself. In Islam, betrayal and adultery are major sins for both men and women. Just as loyalty is required from a wife, it is equally required from a husband. If a husband chooses to forgive his wife and try to save the marriage, calling him âweakâ is not an Islamic teaching but a social attitude. Likewise, if a wife decides to forgive or remain patient after her husbandâs betrayal, that is her personal choice, not an obligation. Islam calls for fairness and accountability from both sides, not only one.
Answered by
Mufti Tosif Qasmi
May 26, 2026
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