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Social Matters | Mar 16, 2026 | 1 min read

Apologizing to non-mahrams-permissible?

Question

Is it permissible for a women , to apologize to non mahrams , if in past they were friends and she hurted them a lot and now she has cut the contacts with them and is focusing on her religion. And she regrets how she has treated them , and wants to apologize to them about it and explain to them , that she doesn't want to have make friend now , can she ? If one number is of his mother and she thinks his mother would most likely tell her mother and don't want to message in that number as she feels shy that his mother will know and then her own mother . So can she approach that person outside if she sees him and apologize to him . Thank you

Islamic Ruling & Answer

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Yes, if you truly feel regret over your past actions and you have hurt someone, then it is permissible to apologize to the extent of necessity. However, the apology should be brief and free from any unnecessary conversation or softness.

It is better, if possible, to apologize through a simple message. Meeting in person is not appropriate, as it may lead to fitnah.

And if messaging is also difficult for some reason, then feeling remorse in your heart and seeking forgiveness from Allah is sufficient, as Allah knows the intentions well.

Answered by

Mufti Tosif Qasmi

March 16, 2026