Separate home vs Parental care conflict

Asalamualiukum i have been married before 5 years ago. we have good relations but not i expected, my wife has issues with mother measns her grandmother. and wants to stay in a separate house away from my parental house. she now stays at her fathers home. her stupid father also insisted her to stay with them. i called her many times but she did not responded at all. i told her that i will stay with you in a separate room but in my parental home. but she did not responded at all to the request. and stays with her father and i live alone . in this way we livivng but i am young i need intimacy and other desires. what can i do. my question is, who is wrong amoong us. if she asks for a separate home away from my parents, my asnwer was always that i will live in a separate room but in my parental home. as my parents are very ill and in this situation i cant live outside my parental home. i f im wroong plz guide me