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بِسْمِ ٱللَّٰهِ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ Monday, 18 May 2026 Al Athnayn, 1 Dhū al-Ḥijjah 1447 AH
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Social Matters | May 16, 2026 | 1 min read

Don’t rush toward divorce

Question

I'm a married man.Due to some medical issues yet I have no babies and I'm married from 2 years. I live in foriegn. When this time I came to the working country from my home country my wife told me divorce me without a reason. And She is making it worse for me every time changing statements that you behaved with me very wrongly. She has no valod reasons bcz whenever I was with her she never said such things to me and yes we argued on some specific topics but i remeber I never abused her. Even though I care alot about her I'm not getting that why she is doing such things. Should I divorce her without any reasons ?

Islamic Ruling & Answer

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The prophet ﷺ said :

«أَبْغَضُ الْحَلَالِ إِلَى اللَّهِ الطَّلَاقُ»

Translation:

“Among the lawful things, the most disliked to Allah is divorce.”

(Sunan Abi Dawud)

Do not rush into divorce. Two years of marriage, the stress of not having children yet, living apart, misunderstandings, and emotional pressure can sometimes make a person say harsh things. If you truly did not abuse, oppress, or mistreat her, then first try to resolve the matter with wisdom, patience, and sincere communication. Seek reconciliation through a respected elder, a wise family member, or a scholar.

Divorce should not be given merely because of temporary anger, emotional pressure, or changing statements. As long as there is hope for reconciliation and improvement, efforts should be made to save the marriage.

May Allah bring peace, understanding, and mercy between both of your hearts, and guide you toward the best decision for your dunya and akhirah.

Answered by

Mufti Tosif Qasmi

May 16, 2026