Has Divorce Occurred After Saying “I Will Give You divorce”? (Islamic Ruling)
Question
My wife said she wants divorce i asked her if you really wants it three times and she said yes to all and then i said okay then i will give you divorce. Now has divorce happened between us ? What is the ruling ?
Islamic Ruling & Answer
VerifiedNo, divorce (talaq) does not occur by saying “I will give you divorce,” as this is only a future statement and not an actual pronouncement of talaq.
In Islam, divorce (talaq) only takes place when it is expressed clearly and directly in the present tense, such as saying “I divorce you” or “You are divorced.”
Statements like:
- “I will give you divorce”
- “I will divorce you later”
are considered future promises, not actual talaq. Therefore, they do not result in divorce.
Ruling in This Case
In the given situation, the husband only said:
“Okay, then I will give you divorce.”
This statement does not count as talaq, because:
- It is not a direct pronouncement
- It refers to the future
- No actual divorce was issued
So, no divorce has taken place between الزوج and wife.
Important Clarification
If a person later clearly says:
“I divorce you”
then one talaq will occur.
Evidence & References
1. Principle of Clear vs Indirect Words (Ṣarīḥ & Kināyah)
In Islamic jurisprudence, divorce only takes place with:
- Clear words (ṣarīḥ) → divorce occurs without needing intention
- Indirect words (kināyah) → require intention
Future statements like “I will divorce you” are not considered ṣarīḥ talaq.
📚 Reference:
- Al-Hidayah (Hanafi Fiqh)
- Fatawa Hindiyyah
- Radd al-Muhtar (Ibn Abidin)
2. Future Statement Does Not Count as Talaq
Scholars state that a statement referring to the future does not constitute divorce because talaq must occur in the present tense or immediate form.
📚 Reference:
- Radd al-Muhtar (Ibn Abidin)
- Fatawa Alamgiri (Hindiyyah)
3. Hadith on Seriousness of Divorce
The Prophet ﷺ said:
“Three matters, whether spoken seriously or jokingly, are taken seriously: marriage, divorce, and taking back (ruju’).”
(Sunan Abu Dawood 2194, Tirmidhi)
This shows that clear pronouncement matters, not vague or future intent
Conclusion
Saying “I will give you divorce” does not count as talaq, so no divorce has occurred unless clear words of divorce are actually spoken.
Islam permits divorce but discourages it unless necessary.
The Prophet ﷺ said: “Of all lawful things, divorce is the most disliked by Allah.” (Sunan Abu Dawood 2178)
Answered by
Mufti Tosif Qasmi
September 22, 2025
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