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Miscellaneous | Apr 11, 2026 | 1 min read

Interfere in a married womanโ€™s relationship in islam

Question

Assalamu Alaikum I was in an on and off relationship with a girl for last 15 years where my intention was purely to marry that girl. However due to some reasons the girl was always reluctant about marrying me and she never gave me the chance to ask her hand in marriage. Last year she got engaged and nikahfied to a person post that I completely disconnected with her but my heart was always heavy because I loved her unconditionally to the limit where she became irreplaceable. Now after her nikah she connected me again and asked to help her get rid of her wedding as the rukhsati is yet to be done. I prayed alot for our union. Now I am at a point where I am unable to find any way to go. I am in dire need of help. We are again in touch and she is continuously asking me to help her end her marriage as she is not willing fully in that wedding and also she cannot confront to her family as well.

Islamic Ruling & Answer

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Walekumussalam,

is not permissible for you to stay in contact with this girl again or to help her end her marriage in any way. She is now legally married to another man in Islam, so keeping a relationship with her and trying to break her marriage is a serious sin.

The Prophet ๏ทบ clearly said:

He is not one of us who turns a woman against her husband. (Abu Dawood)

And Allah says:

โ€œDo not even go near adultery.โ€ (Surah Al-Isra: 32)

Therefore, you must immediately cut off contact with her and remove yourself from this situation. If she is not happy in her marriage, she should resolve it herself through proper Islamic ways (like khula). This is not your responsibility.

It is necessary for you to repent, ask Allah for help, and completely stay away from this trial. This is better for you in this world and the Hereafter.

Answered by

Mufti Tosif Qasmi

April 11, 2026