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بِسْمِ ٱللَّٰهِ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ Thursday, 20 August 2026 Thursday, 7 Rab al-awwal 1448 AH
Hadith of the Day: الدَّالُّ عَلَى الْخَيْرِ كَفَاعِلِهِ "The one who guides to good is like the doer." — Tirmidhi (Ṣaḥīḥ)
Social Matters | Aug 19, 2026 | 1 min read

Fiance compliments before nikah

Question

Is it permissible during khiṭba to say to the future spouse a compliment like I prefer when I hear your voice ?

Islamic Ruling & Answer

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From an Islamic perspective, khiṭbah (engagement) does not constitute marriage, so the fiancé and fiancée remain non-maḥram to each other before the nikāḥ.

Therefore, as a matter of precaution, it is not appropriate to make statements that express love, romantic attraction, or emotional intimacy, such as: “I prefer hearing your voice,” especially if such words may increase emotional attachment or desire, or lead to prolonged and unnecessary conversation.

Allah Almighty says:

فَلَا تَخْضَعْنَ بِالْقَوْلِ فَيَطْمَعَ الَّذِي فِي قَلْبِهِ مَرَضٌ

“So do not be soft in speech, lest the one in whose heart is a disease should be tempted.” (Al-Aḥzāb: 32)

And Allah knows best.

Answered by

Mufti Tosif Qasmi

August 19, 2026

Researched & verified under our editorial & answer-review policy.

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