Ladki ko ladko mein interest nahi – Islam, marriage aur solution guide
Question
Assalamualaikum Mere behan hai lakin uska intrest bilkul bhi ladko main nahi hai usko ye bhi nai ke wo ladkio k saath gair galat harkat karte hain saber se usne bht waqt se dua mangi hai lakin ab itna muskil hugaya hai wo isse se nai nikal sakre na uska dil o dimag shadi mai hai humne usse suggest Kiya hai k wo shadi karke apni life main aage badjaye wo bol rahe hai ke uski feeling uska intrest nahi hai ladko main wo kisi ladke ki zindagi kharab nahi karsakte usko waha pe koi ladki nazar kharab hujay yani wo shadi nahisambhal sakegi hum bht pareshan hai ye baat kuch achi nai hai ju kisi se bhi iske bare raii lesake bas bardsah kar rahe hai aur ye ladki k saath aaj kal se nahi hu raha hai ladki ko jab se hosh aaya hai tab se ladki ka intrest ladkiyo mai hai aur ladki age aaj 28 saal hugaye hai iska koi haal bataye kya ladki ka phir b shadi kare yah ilaj karaye sex change operation yah Allah k upper chorde plz jawab dee bht umeedon se yaha likha hai apni izzat ki gairat ki fikar na karte Hui samj nahi aara tha kya karna. Aur ladko ko humne bht samjaya hai k ye gunah hai haram hai ladki khud bhi samj rahe hai mante hai k gunah hai lakin wo bol rahe hai ye sub ki usko knowledge hi nai thi ju b aaj duniya main chalra hai LGBT wala scene wo bol rahe hai ke usko ye sub ka pata hi nai tha na wo lesbian hai maine kabhi koi ladki ko haath nai lagaya na kuch aise waise harkat ki bas mai apne aap mai suffer kare hu Allah se dua mangre hu k Allah maiku yah toh thik karde yah iska koi gayb se haal nikalke hamare
Islamic Ruling & Answer
VerifiedWalekumussalam,
Agar larki ka dil bilkul bhi larkon mein nahin lagta aur use dar hai ke woh shohar ke huqooq ada nahin kar payegi, to aisi halat mein is par shadi zaroori nahin hai. Zabardasti shadi karwana bhi theek nahin, kyunki is se ek larke ki zindagi kharab ho sakti hai.
Sirf dil ke andar jo feelings aati hain woh gunah nahin hain, gunah tab hota hai jab insan is par amal kare. Choonke woh khud gunah se bach rahi hai aur Allah se dua bhi kar rahi hai, to yeh bohat achi baat hai.
Is ka hal yeh hai ke:
Sabr kare aur namaz, dua ka ehtimam rakhe
Kisi achi aur samajhdar alimah ya counsellor se baat kare
Aise mahaul aur cheezon se door rahe jo is feeling ko barhati hain
Sex change operation karwana jaiz nahin hai, aur yeh is masle ka hal bhi nahin hai.
Lehaza na zabardasti shadi karwain, na pareshan hon, balke Allah par bharosa rakhein aur sahi rehnumai aur counselling ikhtiyar karein. InshaAllah Allah behtar rasta nikal dega.
Answered by
Mufti Tosif Qasmi
March 17, 2026
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