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بِسْمِ ٱللَّٰهِ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ Sunday, 22 March 2026 Al Ahad, 3 Shawwāl 1447 AH
Hadith of the Day: إِنَّ أَحَبَّ الأَعْمَالِ إِلَى اللَّهِ أَدْوَمُهَا وَإِنْ قَلَّ "The most beloved deeds are consistent, even if small." — Bukhari, Muslim
Social Matters | Mar 21, 2026 | 1 min read

Handling a Difficult Mother with Wisdom

Question

My mother abuses me and my wife very frequently without any reason. She do so whenever she feels to do it. What should I do as a son and what should my wife do? Jazakallahu Khayran

Islamic Ruling & Answer

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In this situation, act with patience and wisdom. Do not be rude or harsh with your mother; instead, try to explain things gently at the right time. Advise your wife to remain patient and stay quiet, and try to avoid such situations as much as possible. If the matter becomes serious, seek help from a wise elder or a respected family member to resolve it.

Answered by

Mufti Tosif Qasmi

March 21, 2026