What Should Parents Do If Their Child Refuses to Pray Salah?
Question
Assalamualiakum My Son is 9-Aug-2009 born but still not offering Salah. I try everything but same . What to do as per sharia Plz guide
Islamic Ruling & Answer
Wa ʿalaykum as-salām
In Islam, parents are instructed to ask children to pray from the age of 7 and to be firm at the age of 10 if they do not pray, but always with love, patience, and wisdom.
REFRENCE:
“Command your children to pray when they are seven years old, and discipline them for it when they are ten.”
(Abu Dawood, 495)
What you should do:
Avoid force and anger
Be regular in Salah and set a good example
Explain Salah in a gentle and simple way
Encourage the child with small rewards and motivation
Continue making dua consistently
Quranic dua (Wazifa)
رَبِّ اجْعَلْنِي مُقِيمَ الصَّلَاةِ وَمِنْ ذُرِّيَّتِي ۚ رَبَّنَا وَتَقَبَّلْ دُعَاءِ
Surah Ibrahim 14:40
Meaning:
“O my Lord, make me an establisher of prayer, and from my offspring as well.”
How to recite:
Recite once after every obligatory(Farz) Salah
Make dua for your child by name
May Allah guide the child to love Salah. Ameen.
Answered by
Daurah-e-Hadith (Fazil), Darul Uloom Deoband · Specialization in Fiqh & Ifta (Grade A), Jamea Tul Hidaya, Jaipur
June 16, 2026
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