Question
Assalamualaikum , Mujhe apni shaadi ke baare mein rehnumai chahiye. Meri shaadi jhoot aur blackmail ki bunyaad par hui thi. Ladke ne apni family aur identity ke baare mein jhoot bola, aur mujhe dhamki di ke agar shaadi nahi karungi toh media ko bulaayega. Main darr ke wajah se shaadi ke liye raazi hui. Baad mein mujhe pata chala ke uske parents zinda hain aur usne aur bhi baatein chhupayi thi. Shaadi ke baad usne mujhe mentally torture bhi kiya.ye shaadi mere gharwalon ko raazi nahi hy. Main jaana chahti hoon: 1. Kya meri yeh shaadi Islam ke mutabiq valid hai? 2. Agar valid nahi hai, toh mujhe kya karna chahiye? 3. Agar valid hai, toh khula ya separation ka sahi tareeqa kya hai? Main bohot pareshan hoon, please meri rehnumai farmaayein. JazakAllah Khair
Islamic Ruling & Answer
VerifiedWalekumussalam,
zabardasti ki wazaht or hukm:
shariyat-e-mutahrah me nikah ke liye ladki ki dili razamandi zaroori hai, or wali ke liye ya jaiz nahi k wo ladki ki marzi ke bagair nikah kare. lekin agar dabao ya napasandidgi ke bawajud ladki ne wazeh taur par eejab-o-qabool karliya, agarchah dil se raazi na thi, to bhi nikah munaqid ho jata hai, kyonki zaahir me kahe gaye alfaz ka aetbar hota hai.
aap ke case ka itlaq:
agar aap ne khauf or black mailng ki wajah se โhanโ kaha or dil se raazi nhi thi , to ye yaqeenan sakht majboori or zulm hai, lekin agar aap ki taraf se alfaz-e- qabool ada hogaye the to jamahur ke najdeek nikah ho jayega, agarchah ye tareeqa naajaiz or gunah par mbani hai.
ab kya karein?
Aesi surat me aap ke pass ye raaste hein:
khula le sakti hai
โ dhoka or zulm ki buniyad par kisi mustand mufti yaa darul qaza ke zariye faskh-e-nikah karwa sakti hai
Allah aap ke liye aasani farmaye or behtar faisla naseeb farmaye.
Answered by
Mufti Tosif Qasmi
April 03, 2026