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Social Matters | Apr 20, 2026 | 1 min read

Can I Marry a Woman Who Breastfed Me Once as a Baby?

Question

i wanted to marry a girl but later they told me tbat her mother breastfeaded you once when you are less than one year.i researced about it and according to my knowledge i Quran it is forbidden to marry but there is no evidence of how many times of breastfeeding is required. From haadith i found that there is one hadith from hazrat aisha which states that five breastfeading ks required to make it haram.please guide me regarding this issue

Islamic Ruling & Answer

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If it is truly proven and certain that the girlโ€™s mother breastfed you within the first two years of your life, then she becomes your milk mother, and the girl becomes your milk sister. In that case, marriage with her is not allowed (haram).

As for the narration reported from Aisha (RA) about five times of breastfeeding, in the Hanafi school this is not taken as a general rule. Based on the general wording of the Qurโ€™an (โ€œthose women who breastfed youโ€), the principle is that whether  (little) or moreโ€”even one time breastfeedingโ€”is enough to establish prohibition.

However, one important point is that a ruling should not be based just on โ€œsomeone said soโ€ or hearsay. It must be confirmed with certainty whether the breastfeeding actually happened.

If there is any doubt, it is better to consult a reliable Darul Ifta (Islamic legal authority) with full details and get a proper ruling.

Answered by

Mufti Tosif Qasmi

April 20, 2026

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