Question
Mere husband mujhe aur mere bacchon ko ghar per bilkul time nahin dete.... ek do ghante ke liye Ghar per aate Hain to jhagadana shuru kar dete Hain aur usmein Main kuchh kah dun toh mujhe gande galliyan dete h .....mai nhi deti.....par kbi had se jyada galliyan dene par same gaali palatkar maine dedi toh dhamkate Hain ....rishta nahin Hai.... rishta khatm... rishta nahin jamta... kya isase talaq Ho jaati Hai
Islamic Ruling & Answer
VerifiedBehan, aap ke halaat par hamein dil se afsos hai. Allah aap ko sabr aur himmat de.
Shariyat me sirf “rishta khatm” ya “rishta nahin hai” kehne se talaq khud-ba-khud waqea nahin hoti. yeh alfaz-e-kinayah hain; in se talaq us waqt hoti hai jab shohar ki niyyat talaq ki ho. Agar niyyat na ho to talaq waqea nahin hoti.
Reference :
«وَأَمَّا أَلْفَاظُ الْكِنَايَةِ فَلَا يَقَعُ بِهَا الطَّلَاقُ إِلَّا بِالنِّيَّةِ»
Fatawa Hindiyyah (Bab ut-Talaq)
Aur Hadees me aata hai:
«ثلاثٌ جدُّهُنَّ جدٌّ وهزلُهُنَّ جدٌّ: النكاحُ والطلاقُ والرَّجعةُ»
(Abu Dawood 2194, Tirmizi 1184)
Quran ka hukm hai:
وَعَاشِرُوهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ
(Surah Nisa: 19)
Yani biwiyon ke sath bhale tareeke se zindagi guzaro.
Is liye agar lafz “talaq” nahin bola gaya aur niyyat bhi nahin thi to talaq nahin hui. Final faisla niyyat maloom hone par hoga; ehtiyaatan kisi acche Aalim ya Darul Ifta se contact karein.
Wazeefa:
Roz 100 martaba “Ya Hadi, Ya Lateef” padh kar shohar ki islaah ki dua karein, aur yeh dua bhi padhein:
رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ
(Al-Furqan 25:74)
Allah aap ke ghar me sukoon aur mohabbat paida farmaye. Aameen
Answered by
Mufti Tosif Qasmi
February 12, 2026
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